does anyone know why vic is being such a big _________, lately?

well.. let me tell you.

1.telling her shes a failure 24/7 does not help. if you feel that she is a failure, please keep it to yourself. she already knows that shes a failure as a friend, a sibling, a daughter, a student, and as a member of society. she already knows that it would be much better for her to be dead then to take up space on earth, to eat food when there is already a food shortage, and having oxygen wasted on her, not to mention the gas she uses when she drives.

2. telling her shes always wrong and always jumping to tell her that she is wrong, will not make her happy with you. if you, for some twisted reason feel that telling her that she is wrong and posing to be her friend when not much is going on and then jumping to tell her that she's wrong, when you're not even a part of the original situation, have a wonderful life... without her.

3. stalking her, promising to not stalk her, and then breaking that promise, will not cause her to trust you again. trust me. actually, any of you that feels like promising her something, can just forget it. shes not stupid anymore. shes not gonna trust it. if you truely want her to trust something or to believe something, you'll find the way. you'll know how she'll trust you. and i dont mean conning her. con her if you wanna suffer a horrible fate.

4. nagging at her, especially when shes tired will just add to her current grief.

5. telling her how its always her fault and blaming things on her when its not her fault does not cause her to love you more. especially when you're not going to listen. dont blame others for your inability to raise your own kids. dont blame others for your inability to listen to what your kids hafta say to you. dont blame others, if the one day that they need someone, you're the last on the list, if you're even on the list. dont blame others because you wont listen. dont blame others for your fustration at your inablilty to stick to your word. dont blame others for their distrust in you, because you have broken faith, and cant be trusted.

6. telling her shes not good enough wont help her to try harder. there comes a point where their best is all a person can give. asking for more then that is just proof of an overdemanding person. telling a person that their best work is bearly worthy enough to go in the garbage can is cruel. telling them that they have no value because they cannot achieve the unreasonable goals that you have set for them is stupidity. one hasta set their own goals. not have them set for them.

bottom line to all this jibberish that i can say about 99% of you that come here didnt actually read? it's simple. she is the way she is, because theres no other way. there comes a point in some ppl's lives where you wake up and discover, everything you knew, was just a lie. everything that you once thought was important, has no value. everyone that you once thought loved you, loved you only enough to use you. she is the way she is, NOT because she's pmssing, but because enough is enough. shes not taking crap anymore. have a wonderful life to all of you who choose to leave her life.